Date men and women from Canada / Alberta / Vermilion, 42 year old

Date a soulmate from Alberta, Canada. I am a hard working single mom who is just checking things out. I'm not sure I'm comfortable with online dating, is this the right way to meet someone? I like the initial connection when seeing someone for the first time and talking to them to see if the friendship is worth persuing. I've had some heartache as I'm sure most of you have but my wounds are pretty new so I'm taking my time right now. I'm trying to figure out what it is that I love and enjoy since I did a lot of things for my kids and significant others. I have two boys (ages 17 and 14) that live with me full-time but spend quality time with their dad when they can. I have a great relationship with my ex and his family and believe that is why my children are so grounded. I don't want anymore children, been there, done that, I'm ready to start the next chapter in my life!! Time is too short to be worrying about all the negative things in your life, I prefer to always think of the positives things that happen to you each day! Sometimes this can be hard........ so having the right people surrounding you helps to make things that much easier!!
I apologize if I do not return your emails or winks..... just wanting to see how things go here! Good luck to you!