Date men and women from Canada / Alberta / Wabasca, 28 year old

Date people from Canada. I am looking for a man who can see with his heart and not with his eyes. I am very heavy and not considered to be attractive. I have always been friends with men and never the girls friend because they can't get over the way I look. I need to have someone who cares for who I am. He has to work(not bumb around being a leech), and does minor drinking and NO DRUGS.