Date women from Canada / British Columbia / Armstrong, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from British Columbia, Canada. Its hard to talk about oneself. If I say too many wonderful things about myself I sound like a snob and if I don't then I sound like I have no self confidence!! So here it is with an effort to sound normal, not crazy, not desperate, not lame, Just me.........
When I am not enjoying time with my kids or working, I like playing volleyball, reading a great book, watching a good movie, out for a big walk around town, or snuggling on the couch with my dog Izabella (she is a Havenese). I love to dance and it is a must that my partner does too. Even if its at home in the living room.
I love to travel. Just recently returned from Jamaica and am currently researching my next destination hot spot!!!!
I don't drink alcohol at all but don't mind being with someone who enjoys it ocassionally. I still like to go to the pub or a fun party and I am the perfect designated driver! lol
I have 3 kids 19y/o daughter that is on her own, a 10 y/o daughter and an 8 y/o son who live with me full time.
It is not easy finding a man who is comfortable enough in himself to take on a woman with three kids, but I know he is out there. My kids are with me full time as their dad lives in Saskatchewan but he is very involved. I am looking for someone who is ok that my kids are a part of my life. That doesn;t mean I don't have time for him it will just be quality above quantity. I am able to take care of them and myself financially so don't worry I am not looking for your money.
I would like to find someone who is all about the fun. I love to laugh and it is essential for my partner to feel the same. I am looking for someone to go for dinner with, take to a function that may interest both of us, check out the latest movie, enjoy some bbq time with friends. I want someone who will enjoying doing things with my kids and his (if he has some) but not be their father, a good male role model. In the same I do not want to be the mother of your children but a positive female role model I can do. When I say I don't want to be their mother it does not mean that I won't allow myself to fall in love with them too I want to feel as important to you as you do to me. I do not wish to have more kids or get married again. At this point I love living alone but wouldn't say no to a weekend sleepover.
I have a small addiction to tattoos. I have 7 and my next one is being drawn up as I write this.
I am very close with my family and would like to find someone who is family oriented. I am also very social and love spending time cooking for my friends and family, visiting with friends at the pub, or just going for coffee with a girlfriend. I believe it is very important to have a good balance in life with family, work, friends and self. So I try to make time for a little of everything.
I am fortunate to have a job that brings me much joy. I have a zest for life and love spending time with my friends and family. I feel like my life is well rounded and complete so I am looking for someone to share it with not complete it. If you are looking for someone who is confident, able to look after herself and loves to have fun, then here I am.