Date men from Canada / British Columbia / Castlegar, 43 year old

Date single man from British Columbia, Canada. I am looking for a life partner...... Simple. If that scares you, then I probably wont be your match....I guess meeting and talking to people is part of the journey and experience.... I want to find the one that is "my one as I hope I am theirs"
I believe there are plenty of beautifull women out there. I want to find the one that I click with, laugh with, share my heart, soul dreams and aspirations with and hers the same. Though as cliche as it sounds, a want to find my "fun loving, let’s get retarded together soul mate", not the lets just give it a try and see what happens partner.
My kids are my world, and I definitely hope yours are your world if you have them. The way you live, laugh and your daily values, dreams and aspirations should reflect on who you want them to be..... I dont desire to party or go to bars, I want to party alone with you, or with our kids, or family or only very close friends.
Evenings I love to unwind to a nice glass of wine and share meaningful and deep conversations.... not just what happened throughout the day... but what you felt, how you felt and look to each other for feedback, support, understanding and love... I love kissing and cuddling by a fire or under the moon - on the deck, as sappy as it may sound to some... I am also very active, love to run a lot and workout.... would love my partner to do same with me....So lets also run, camp, ski or ????
What else???? Well, I love dancing with my partner..... like nobody is watching.... especially after a few drinks, and trust me, I sure as hell hope nobodys watching!!!! Impulsive last minute getaways, Vegas, camping, or just to a different town for the night or a hike in the mountains..... thats just some of what I love to do!
I really dont need to have a bunch of friends around with my partner and I.... lets make eachother laugh, hard, till we just cant no more! I am quite secure with myself so if your humour is sarcastic - I'm good with that! as mine can be at times...
If you want to just date, have casual fun or see if I can fill every void in your life because you don’t know what you want or who you are yourself, or if you arent compatible with what I wrote or my interests, if you truelly aren't outdoorsy or physically active - we wont match - trust me - keep looking!
My ideal match would be motivated, active, open, honest, introspective and not afraid to open up and confide completely! A great sense of humor and loving to laugh is very key. Also, I have dealt with all my past issues, and really am looking for an equal partner, no drama, games, manipulation or crazy ex's in the closet that continually haunt them! A what you see is what you get, strong willed and commited partner.....