Date men and women from Canada / British Columbia / Greenwood, 50 year old

Date someone special from Canada. I like to think that even though I am a widow, there is still a great guy out there. I know there a lot of players online and hope you aren't one. I'm layed back and like to joke around. I like honesty in a man (no one who lies to my face while he sneaks around behind my back). I like a guy who likes to joke and doesn't take life so seriously. I am shy until I get to know you. I am still able to talk with people I don't know though. I just want a male companion who would like to just hang out together and if it develops into more, that would be great. I'd love to go dancing again, it's been a long time so I need a guy who is willing to be patient. I like honesty in a partner. I give my all and only expect the same back. I do like my alone time too though.
Not looking for a man to save me, just to spend time together. If you are into casual sex or don't want to be a one woman guy, don't waste my time or yours. I have a healthy outlook on sex, I give myself freely to the right man and take as much as I give. I do expect friendship first though. I want a guy that isn't afraid to just be himself. Someone that I can talk to about anything and everything no matter how trivial or how serious. I would like someone who will hug me when I'm sad and laugh with me when I'm happy. Someone who likes to hold hands even in public. I am a cuddle-bug when I watch t.v. and would like the same. I do still think it is important to have alone time too.
I have a job and am financially stable and own my own house.
Is there an honest guy out there who would be willing to just be himself and let me be me? Someone who at the end of the day, we can just be happy and content in each others company? Someone I can bring a cup of tea/coffee/beer or have him do that for me and just say, "how's it going sweetie?"