Date women from Canada / British Columbia / Mission, 38 year old

Date someone special from Mission, Canada. Time for shameless self promotion...............Ready? Here we go.................................
My life has been amazing and blessed, I'm grateful for everything; including the difficulties I've experienced, they have shaped my life and made me who I am.
I currently still have all of my own teeth and they are shiny and white, I also have a great job and it was not court mandated..........The bonus? I own my own vehicle. I know right?
What am I looking for? hmmmm. I suppose I`ll know when I find it. I think physical attraction is key, I think you can grow to love someone, but I don`t think you can grow to be physically attracted to someone. In my perfect world, I am simply looking for my besty , I want someone who believes in the potential for long term, I want someone that I can be raw and real and honest with. I have learned in this life that you can have ideas about what you want and need, and then life throws you a curve ball and you are given an unexpected gift that you never imagined but couldn't imagine living without.
I have chilli beans whom live with me half time, therefore, I'm afforded pockets of time to myself. It would be great to find a person to have fun with and to do fun things with, during my free time .
I think an important aspect in a partner is to understand and appreciate that although I have no interest in introducing my chillies to anyone unless it`s very serious, I come as a package deal, and I would never be able to or willing to compromise that for anyone for any reason.
I think the definition of true love is a person who listens to a ``seemingly at the time unimportant detail`` and shows up on your door step with something that you mentioned in passing weeks before, just because they knew it would make you happy. Don`t get me wrong fellas, flowers are lovely but details make imprints and create lasting effects.
I work in a job that is busy and emotionally demanding, but I have learned so much about the human condition, forgiveness, pain, joy, triumph, defeat, understanding and that people are people not matter what choices or circumstances have befallen them.
I have some visible ``ink``, so if that`s an issue, I may not be the girl for you.
I have to be realistic so if you live far, far away, I will not be afforded the opportunity to pursue anything because of my current commitments...........
The following has become a bit of a cliche, but it is the greatest truth......Life is not measured by the breaths you take, but rather the moments that take your breath away.
Good Luck, I hope you all find what you are looking for!