Date women from Canada / British Columbia / Mission, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from British Columbia, Canada. So I'm totally new to the online dating thing and I find it a bit difficult to write about myself, but here it goes.
I am a very active person. I work full-time as a Maternity nurse, I have 2 kids that live with me part-time, I own my own house and I workout frequently. I love my family and like my job a lot, but I also like to have fun. I am self-sufficient and enjoy fixing things around my house, whether it's changing a light fixture or installing a new toilet, I like to do it all. I mow my own lawn, clean my own house, and I wash my vehicle in the driveway with a bucket and hose. I have no tattoos, no piercings(except my ears) no fake body parts or implants, what you see is what you get. I don't mince my words, if I don't feel a connection, I will tell you, I don't want to waste my time or yours.
I'm looking for a man who is confident, active, and does not feel threatened by a confident partner. I like someone who won't always cave or agree with me, you have to have a little spirit, but not mean. I am not looking for a man who is jealous or insecure, or who needs me to be at his side at all times. You must be financially secure, I have kids and a mortgage, I don't need another dependant.
If this all sounds reasonable to you and you think we would be a good fit, send me an email.