Date women from Canada / British Columbia / Sooke, 34 year old

Date someone special from Sooke, Canada. It was time to rewrite this...so here we go!
I am a hardworking, dedicated single mother of three kids aged 17, 13 and 10. I work some weird shifts, but am compensated very nicely for that and do have the days off to be with someone. I enjoy camping, boating, road trips, travelling, dining out and just trying out new stuff. I love relaxing in my jeans or my lulu's but have no problems cleaning up for a night out on the town. I do have a few dresses and high heels I would love to wear more often. My favorite music right now is more leaning towards the electro type of stuff, but I do listen to everything. I think I am just into the electro because it is so upbeat, and with winter being upon us now, the weather sure isn't helping with keeping me feeling like my regular, crazy self! My favorite TV shows right now would have to be American Horror Story and Sons of Anarchy...but typically I am watching either Discovery, History or the Food Network. I love to travel...I can usually be found in hot places where conversations are more likely to happen. My friends have said that I am a determined and strong woman and that the big things that scare most people I've taken in stride with grace, maturity and courage. They also have said that they appreciate my smile because they know its sincere. I think they should put the bottle down ;o)
Now comes the hard part...what am I looking for in a potential partner. As for most of us, by the time we get to this age, we have been burned a time or two and start to doubt ever finding our soul mate. I beleive that every person has multiple soul mates for the different stages of their life. I am now at the stage where I want to start building the rest of my life with that one special someone. That man will be sincere, willing to communicate, extremely loyal, trustworthy and compassionate. He will want to, not only, stimulate my body, but my mind as well. If he is not happy with something, he will tell me (and vice versa) without having to resort to a screaming match. I don't like to argue and fight, but will if I feel like I have too.In the heat of most arguments, things are said that can never be taken away, regardless of their truth or not...so that is why I really dislike fighting. You will enjoy spending time together, be it at home or outdoors...watching a movie, snuggling on the couch with a glass of our favorite bevvie or grabbing a bite to eat at the new restaurant our friends have talked so much about. I do try to make sure my man knows how much I care and appeciate him, so obviously I would want the same in return. Its the little things that matter the most.
If I wink at you or add you to my favorites, consider it a compliment that I would like to chat more, but am not a subscriber right now. Still trying to see if subscribing would be worth it.