Date men from Canada / British Columbia / Vernon, 52 year old

Date someone special from Vernon, Canada. Hi, my female friends would describe me as witty, upbeat and attractive, with a cosmopolitan, well educated, non-judgemental outlook towards life....I promise I will try and live up to it:)
I am definitely a "glass half full type of person", and need that in a partner. I really, really dont like spending time around negative people, and believe life is toooooooo short for that... honestly.. life throws challenges out to everybody... and at the second that we truly get that.. it becomes a little less challenging :)
I am looking for someone who is sociable, active,smart, and has a sense of humor, but not tooo many rough edges.
Cudos if you have already done some travelling, more if you really want to do some more.... if you enjoy a nice glass of wine.. perfect.
I really dont believe in the "getting to know each other over the internet"... believe if there is an interest.. lets meet quickly.... because the "shallow hal" in me, DOES need the initial physical attraction... knowing full well that as we progress down that dating path, that we had better truly like the person underneath the skin....

Meet single man from Vernon, Canada. I hope my name gives you a sense of who I am. When I enter a room it's not "here I am" rather I prefer it to be "there you are"!!! It's because I like people and listening to their stories as much as I enjoy sharing mine once I have gotten to know them and their story. I guess I believe that's the way it's supposed to be. It's about them not me!!
Seeing a happy face makes me smile instantaniously and I am looking for a lady who's wants to be smiling and laughing all the time. I am not totally naive because I realize life isn't always sweet but it's more enjoyable when you make it as sweet as possible.
I am looking forward to spending time with someone I respect, love and isn't afraid to be affectionate, likes to travel, have weekend get aways and willing just to hang out on those nasty days.
I am strong but I believe I am sensitive to the needs and commitments (obligations) of others. Most of us have children and I believe that they are a priority so coming in second or third to the kids is just fine with me. I am extremely compassionate and sympathetic to children given the challenges they all seem to face today. I really think they need to be heard and encouraged to; "Shoot for the Stars and reach for the Moon".
I live by truth and integrity. They always win out because I believe that no one can ever be bit in the butt for being honest.
I have been on my own for over three years and I am low maintenance and I am looking for good lady with a strong sense of self esteem who likes to have fun and isn't afraid to say what she wants.
I am hoping to attract someone who makes me want to work less and play more!!!. I really enjoy travelling and I am not afraid to try new things. Distances don't bother me because I love to jump in the car, put the top down, and just drive. Among the mainy activities I do (motorcycle riding, boating, golfing etc), I really enjoy visting winery's and new places and sometimes it's both, so a winery in a new place is just perfect.
Patients is manditory as I want to make my partner happy but sometimes need some guidance (wake up calls or loving tap on the head, lol) to ensure their needs and wants are met and priorities are understood. Remember I am a man but I think through good and kind communications this won't be a problem.
I have been blessed with a great career and business so much so that I can live for family, friends and fun. I am looking for someone to share it with.
I really want to be with someone who takes pride in their personal appearance and is proud to have me in their presence.
I always respond to emails as I believe it's important to be polite and respectful to the people who take the chance and put it out there!!! Be an optomist and don't be afraid to say hi, nothing ventured nothing gained.

Date a soulmate from Vernon, Canada. I like to enjoy life, have fun and be active in almost anything. I am quite athletic and would like to meet someone that likes to go for hikes, ski, go kyaking or just sit around a camp fire. If you like to watch hockey, go to a movie or read a book in the evening that is great as well. If you like to have a glass of wine or cup of tea and chat or play the occasional card game we could have fun together.