Date women from Canada / New Brunswick / Oromocto, 37 year old

Date a soulmate from New Brunswick, Canada. Not looking to get swept off my feet or love at first sight. I have learned that fast and furious starts to relationships end with a big crash and burn.
I'd rather meet someone on a friendship level and build that. Getting swept off your feet means more when your not aware it's happening in a whirlwind.
Easy going, very patient, and not looking to mold anyone into anything they are not and in return not looking to be molded.
No looking for anyone to "save me" or because I'm lonely just looking for someone to enrich my life.
If you drink beyond a few with the boys now and then, or a cold one on a hot day or do drugs, or have any type of gambling issues please don't message me.
I'm a grown up I don't want anyone in my life who still then they are 18 and can't leave the frat days behind them.