Date men from Canada / Ontario / Brampton, 57 year old

Date someone special from Ontario, Canada. OK now for real, since I just paid for this service! I kept saying things like I don't know why am I on here etc. so I thought I would now really try and figure it out.
I actually enjoy being on my own and having my own house with my things where I know where they always are. I don't have a lot of "toys" if any really. I have always had a nice car as I love driving and also keeping it clean, very relaxing. Makes driving to work something I look forward to.
Relationships....well I guess I don't really believe that there is one special person for everyone, or maybe even anyone. But before you jump to the conclusion I am just looking for a quick....you know what, well I am not. I am not a "player" as I see some people call it on here.
I really enjoy, and have always had, women friends but now I am in a different area finding new friends from scratch is all but impossible. I love getting to know women and if they are attractive then that's obviously a bonus- maybe that sounds shallow, I don't mean it to be but just being honest that looking at a beautiful woman is a nice thing. Doesn't mean that that is all that is important!
It is much easier to have an honest meaningful discussion with a woman as most guys don't really talk about real stuff, I don't with most of my friends. I really don't truly care how the Leaf's prospects look next season! One girl friend of mine once said I was a like a gay friend, except not gay! Not sure how to take that but I think she meant it as a compliment.
So I guess I am on here to try and find some kind of meaningful relationship with someone I can end up trusting, that I can accept as who they are and they can do the same. Someone that is not hell bent on finding that Mr Right that will be everything in their life and forgetting to just enjoy. That is a huge pressure on a person and I think why it seems most of my friends who are still married seem to be pretty unhappy and just getting through life. I was for many years.
Hey, but if I do end up finding Mrs Right, I hope to hell I"m Mr Right, if not, that would be total bummer!
Be happy.