Date women from Canada / Ontario / Cornwall, 39 year old

Date someone special from Cornwall, Canada. After being married for 15 years, I was hurt beyond belief. I moved back to Cornwall from Windsor with my two kids Parker 12, Paige 6. I took the plunge and went back to school for Personal Support Worker and will graduate in June with an awesome GPA of 3.963. I also took 4 Dementia courses at night to upgrade my learning. I am in the process of sending out resumes in the hope of landing a great job at a long-term care facility.
My kids, family and friends are my biggest support group. I think they would say I love to have a great time but enjoy chilling too. My kids live with me and every two weekends they are with their dad. When they are with me, I like to spend time with them. When I go out with friends, I try and do it when the kids are with their dad.
I run 5km races when I can especially with my son and have just started taking a kickboxing class. I decorate cakes for special occasions but I do it to see a smile on others faces.
It's hard to say what kind of a relationship I'm looking for because of the hurt I've experienced and trust is a huge thing with me. I haven't been out with anyone since December 2010 because I needed to be there for my kids and then I spent my spare time studying, doing homework and assignments for school.
I'd like to hope that I can find someone who will treat me with the respect I deserve and include my kids in the relationship. I will not be controlled nor will I do everything!