Date men and women from Canada / Ontario / Dundas, 40 year old

Date people from Ontario, Canada. This whole dating process has helped me get to know myself better and know who I'm looking for faster. So let's connect and enjoy this beautiful summer!
Please INCLUDE A PHOTO! Non smokers only, Athletic build, 34-44 men. I'm into dating close to my age and those without kids (I want my own). Why do I keep getting emails from old guys not wanting more kids? Lol. Did you actually read my Basics??? Lol. If you're over 44 I'm not into reading your profile or emails, sorry! I can't respond to everyone, especially those that are out of town, over 50 , etc.
About me: I like to laugh and enjoy all kinds of conversation, whether it's walking along the lake or sharing a drink together. I'm well read and knowledgeable, love learning, open minded, ambitious and have financial and personal goals.
I try to take care of my health and stay fit and trim and looking for same. (no smokers, yes, cigars means smoking too guys, lol. no heavy drinkers either please)
I'm looking to settle down, a life-partner, my best friend, where we can experience life together as friends and lovers Ideally, someone classy, articulate, nice-looking, fit, and intelligent. I would love to find a man that is well educated or well read -, has his 'stuff' together. Is that you? I'm not expecting or wanting a perfect man (that would be boring and I don't mind a challenge!) since I'm not perfect and have weaknesses just like everyone else. One of the things I'm working on is showing my softer side, not always projecting my strong/independent side, it takes practice showing vulnerability; but I'm working on it! When a man makes me feel comfortable, I'm affectionate and fun and adore him. If you're ambitious but know how to balance work and play, awesome!
I want to be attracted to my man, feel chemistry and have a good laugh. It's all about give and take, relationships are like a 'dance'. Music is a huge interest of mine, (that means, if you sing a tune to me while playing guitar, I will probably melt!) I love my Kawasaki and summer riding but, you don't have to have your Motorcycle license.
Bonus points for: neanes, healthy diet, good hygiene (nice teeth and sexy cologne are great!. lol!), tall (5'10"and up) but hey, if you're everything else I'm looking for, there are always exceptions to the rule and who knows when that amazing chemistry can strike! :)
More about me if you want to read:
Aside from motorcycling, I'm into kayaking, meeting with friends at a live band night or catching a movie. I'm not into Drama or arguing or constant sarcasm. I'm calm, cool and collected type and have my stuff together. I want to learn, grow, expand my viewpoint, have someone to come home to, have someone miss me when I'm not around and have someone I can share my heart with that appreciates me. Dream on you say? If you think it's impossible, you probably just don't meet my standards, which, although are high, I give to the same standards in return. I know there are great guys out there that are just too busy to meet and the local bars are just not my thing for finding a boyfriend. I'm a one man kind of woman. I've NEVER cheated on a partner and I'm loyal and faithful. Friends describe me as no B.S, a straight shooter but also mysterious. If you're curious and into Personality profiling, check out ISTJ's, that's me. :) (rare in a girl apparently)
Just to be clear, I'm NOT looking for: men with kids, grandpas, smokers, email buddies or a long distance relationship.
Let's start with a coffee or wine date and see if there's any chemistry. Even just a walk works too!
If anything that I said resonates with you, I would look forward to your contact. If not, I truly wish ALL THE BEST TO YOU AND HOPE YOU FIND TRUE LOVE!
p.s. Yes, I know my profile is long, too bad! I like writing too! lol.