Date men and women from Canada / Ontario / Fergus, 42 year old

Date single man from Fergus, Canada. I'm kind of an old fashioned guy so this doesn't seem like the most natural place to meet you, but I know you don't go to bars or nightclubs on a regular basis, so this is a great place to meet you.
I know some guys on here have ruined it for you by asking for sex and one night stands, but there's more to life than that. I prefer to be emotionally healthy so one night stands aren't my thing. I'm after something special.
I have worked hard in my career and things have come into place quite nicely. I work for the government and have a great job.
I'm looking for a girl who has her act together. Looks are not quite enough. A girl who sees the glass as half full. A positive disposition. A girl who enjoys her single life now, but knows meeting the right man will make it even better.
It seems like everyone on here is looking for their opposite gender equal. That's where I'd have to say I'm different. There is great wisdom in the old saying "opposites attract". You can only really be fulfilled in life by being with someone who will help you grow. I tend to be easy going, laid back, analytical, organized. A true left brain thinker. An ideal match for me would be a "Magician". Someone who is outgoing, social, and would gladly take to the stage.
If you're reading this right now, it's because I think you could be what I've been looking for. Fate has waited long enough.

Meet a woman from Fergus, Canada. my friends would describe me as attractive,friendly,easygoing,confident,a good friend and listener.
the person i hope to attract is a thoughtful,honest,self-assured,attractive man who has ambition and has a sense of humour
in a relationship i would like a friend,companion and a man who can hold a conversation.
an ideal date might be a great meal, light conversation and the right music for the mood.
i'm most passionate about my two children they motivate me to be a better person everyday.
my children are young so my ideal partner would need to be aware of this right from the start.

Date a soulmate from Fergus, Canada. The most important thing in my life is family, they are my support system and I am theirs. My children are my number one priority. I am a bit of a loner, quite independant and easy going. I will however put up a good fight when its about something I believe in.
I would like to find someone who values family, is open minded, good sense of humour. Ability to communicate and kind....so important.