Date women from Canada / Ontario / Stoney Creek, 60 year old

Date a soulmate from Ontario, Canada. i have 4000 characters to tell you all about myself and what I'm looking for. Seems like a lot considering I'd rather do it a little more personally soooo basically I have to sell myself and describe you. Awkward right??
I'm a 60 year old..at least that's what my birth certificate says...I am just recently finding out how much older that is than I imagined myself to be. You know the feeling when you look at other people your own age and think they look so much older than yourself? No? You don't know that feeling? hmmmm...just me then...i see myself so much younger than many people my age..men and women.
I lost my husband last August ... I guess he kept me feeling young because dating sites sure are a reality check.
Anyway...I like to socialize with friends and family; I like quiet dinners with a walk on the beach later; I like to snuggle and watch a movie or sit by a fire...outside or in. What I dislike beyond measure is long awkward silences so please if you're really shy don't message me I just can't carry us both!
"Any man of mine" will have a great sense of humor and be willing to take and hopefully engage in playful banter....he has a good heart (like me); is generous and kind...loves animals and mankind (some of mankind I'd like to kick in the ass too but generally I like people)
I love my family and have a very close relationship with my 3 kids (all grown) and 2 grandchildren (25 and 19) ... hard to believe by looking at me right? ;)
I am interested in a man who is interested in himself. He likes to clean up for me sometimes and take me out but he doesn't go out looking scruffy.
I'm not expecting some hot young man to persue me but I really like guys who take pride in the way they look.
I'm not the prettiest woman in the world of course not....but i think I'm attractive enough to clean up nice for lolol.....if you want me to shave my legs honey.....please keep whatever...if any...of the hair on your face neat and clean! Can you tell i've had issues with that with some men....big turn off guys.
wow still have 1935 characters left......instead of writing anymore can we just talk instead! :D