Date men from Canada / Alberta / Banff, 45 year old

Date single man from Alberta, Canada. Hallo girls, ladies and any humans with female anatomy. I am 42y old Ex South African and still suffering the consequences. All the hot babes dont want guys over 35, so I guess Im done like toast. I am seriously tempted to cut a few years off my life, but that seems contraproductive when youre trying to get older. One is only as old as the people you feel anyway.....
I have a gorgeous boy of 2 , who will steal any womans heart, but still trying to find out if he is mine as the gyne is unsure whether I gave birth to him or not.
I work hard, but not nights any more, so now have some free time to spend time with someone . I love being active, and get exersize by jumping to conclusions. I live in the mountains , but work in Calgary.
I try my best to stay positive every day and am thankful for what I have. I am as naughty as the day I turned 3. My IQ goes up to 20 on hot days only.... ,so I am a bright guy compared to most cooked vegetables.
I have lived many lives and am sure I am already dead, because each day I wake up and a part of me is already stiff.
Dont be offended if I dont write back, as for communication, I am reliant on someone who is actually literate !!
I have seen first hand how short life is, so I eat when I can, drink coffee all day, and live as if there will be no tomorrow, including being stupid about it. Sound like you ? Lets have some more coffee....Got wings will travel .
I am not out for quickies, please God, send a real woman my way.....!!
OK, if that didnt put you off totally and have you speed off in the opposite direction, I am a good man, work hard and have lots and lots to give and dont expect much back, except acceptance and some mutual respect, which I dont think is too much to ask for or expect from someone esle.
Ill put some more picks on as a few girls have asked if Im fat, no Im not fat just look a bit like a captain america that has doughnuts for breakfast.
I was a soldier for 3 years, so the buff is still there, hidden under a small layer of thicker than usual skin.
The root of all unhappiness is expectation so get what you expect by living it.