Date women from Canada / British Columbia / Sechelt, 40 year old

Date a soulmate from British Columbia, Canada. I love nights out for dinner, music, film...but since becoming a mother in 2011 one of my favourite things to do is hang out at home, make good food and drink some nice wine with family and friends. While my time is predominately devoted to my son, career and dog, I'm learning how to add some personal time into the equation.
I love rural life for the beautiful smells, stunning night skies, and serene sounds. My house is on the edge of wilderness and I have already seen 4 bears this season! I'm 5 minutes to a usually quiet beach on the Inlet. While I enjoy going for a dip in the ocean to cool off, I have to admit I think lake swimming is where it's at. I enjoy hiking and live near some pretty easy-going trails, but I wouldn't say I'm hardcore, especially now carrying a baby.
I love city living too. I grew up in downtown Toronto and moved to Vancouver when I was 20. I tend to gravitate to urban areas for their cultural diversity and proximity to downtown.
I can play about a dozen songs on the guitar and I'd like to learn at least another dozen in my lifetime.
I'm a widow. It's obviously had an enormous impact on me, on the way I live my life and on the choices I make, but I don't dwell negatively on the past.
I'm a sensitive gal, not shallow. I've been told it takes more than 10 minutes to get to know me.
Ultimately, I'm looking to make a connection with a great guy who I can share my life with.

Meet someone special from British Columbia, Canada. I am a fun loving open minded person who is independant and loves life. I have my own biz. Looking to expand my sights and take a risk in finding Mr.Right, Well Mr.Right would be open minded, has a sence of humour, loves the simple things in life, Like the outdoors,or the sand between my toes! or a smile! cheers to meeting and greeting!